How Do I Discuss Parenting While Merely Dating? (Part 1)
When you’re in the early stages of dating, parenting might seem like a distant topic — something to be discussed after rings are exchanged and vows are said. But here’s the truth: how someone plans to raise a child reflects how they think, feel, and function in a relationship. And those values don’t magically change after marriage.
In this episode of the Dear Ijay Podcast, we explore the importance of discussing parenting while you’re still dating, not as a pressure point, but as a way to align values, expectations, and emotional maturity early on.
Why Talk About Parenting Now?
Because parenting is not just about raising children — it’s about how two people handle responsibility, pressure, and long-term vision.
It’s a window into how your partner resolves conflict, shows empathy, leads with love, and handles boundaries.
Early conversations about parenting help you avoid unpleasant surprises later.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
✅ How to introduce the parenting topic naturally into a dating conversation
✅ What questions to ask to understand someone’s parenting mindset
✅ Common red flags and green flags when discussing children and family
✅ Why your partner’s childhood may influence their parenting style
✅ The difference between talking about kids vs. preparing for kids
This episode is full of real-talk moments that help you build intentional relationships that don’t just feel good today — but are rooted in shared values for the future.
🎧 Tune in to listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and other platforms!
Stay tuned for Part 2, where we dive into the practical framework for navigating parenting conversations in more depth.
