Forgiveness is one of the most challenging emotional steps anyone can take — yet it is also one of the most powerful. In this first part of our conversation, Dear Ijay explores what it truly means to forgive, why letting […]
Financially Comfortable, Not a Billionaire
In this episode of Dear Ijay, we explore a refreshing and realistic perspective on wealth — the idea that you don’t need to be a billionaire to live a good, meaningful, and fulfilled life. Society often pushes extreme wealth as […]
Single Motherhood By Choice (SMBC)
In this powerful and heartfelt episode of Dear Ijay, we explore the growing conversation around Single Motherhood By Choice (SMBC) — a topic that challenges societal norms and celebrates women who are boldly choosing motherhood on their own terms. From […]
Imposter Syndrome
In this episode of Dear IJay, we explore the transformative power of gratitude. Too often, we focus on what we lack instead of what we have — leading to anxiety, dissatisfaction, and burnout. But when you intentionally practice gratitude, your […]
Looking, Acting, & Feeling Young Is Not a Crime
PIn today’s world, people are often judged by how they should look, act, or feel at a certain stage of life. But the reality is clear: looking young, acting young, and feeling young is not a crime. In fact, it’s […]
How Do I Discuss Parenting While Merely Dating? (Part 2)
In Part 1, we established why parenting conversations shouldn’t be delayed until marriage. Now in Part 2, we take things further — giving you practical tools and deeper insight on how to approach these important discussions with confidence, clarity, and […]
HOW DO I DISCUSS PARENTING WHILE MERELY DATING? (PART 1)
How Do I Discuss Parenting While Merely Dating? (Part 1) When you’re in the early stages of dating, parenting might seem like a distant topic — something to be discussed after rings are exchanged and vows are said. But here’s […]
Can I Change My Ill-Mannered Girlfriend for the Better?
In this honest and thought-provoking episode of Dear Ijay, we dive deep into the controversial question many struggle with in relationships — “Can I really change my partner?” 💭 Join us as we explore: The difference between influence and control […]
I Don’t Want to Get Married: Redefining Womanhood, Happiness & Relationship Goals
In this bold and necessary episode of Dear IJay, we tackle the growing conversation around women who are choosing not to get married — and why that’s perfectly okay. Is marriage the only path to fulfillment? Or is it a […]
The Myth of “The One”: Can One Partner Fulfill All Our Emotional, Physical & Spiritual Needs?
IIn this eye-opening episode of Dear IJay, we explore a question many are afraid to ask: Can one partner truly meet all our needs? From emotional connection to financial support, intimacy, spirituality, and friendship — is it realistic to expect […]